PeaceSeekers Teaches Biblical Approach to Handling Conflict

Written by: Elaine Harland on July 23, 2010

It was one of those husband-and-wife spats – you know, the kind that start out as a simple disagreement and then get heated. The wife was a teacher and had developed a tone and volume that could control a class of 30. The husband was an attorney, well-versed in how to argue and set a trap with leading questions.

As the discussion grew into an argument, each side used his or her best skills to “win” the debate. As things were getting rough, the wife excused herself to use the restroom, and then returned to the verbal boxing event. It was as if both sides returned to their corners, planning their strategy for the next round.

But this was no ordinary couple. The husband in this story was Ken Sande, president of Peacemaker Ministries, and his wife, one of the ministry’s best writers. Just as Corlette returned to the room, Ken heard a clear, convicting voice in his heart that said, “And how will those comments glorify God?”

Instantly, he lost all energy for the argument, and instead of attacking, he apologized. Instead of delivering a knockout punch, he confessed his sinful attitude, and what could easily have been a trying and difficult day became a day of joy and forgiveness, a day in which God was glorified.

As Christians, we still so easily get tangled up in handling our differences the way the world does – where there is a winner and a loser. God’s Word teaches us to live in a radically different way from the rest of the world. Scripture teaches us that we can and should be handling conflict in a way that honors God and maintains positive relationships. Only then does anyone win.

Learn the biblical approach to handling conflict and making a difference in your relationships by attending the PeaceSeekers class coming to Northland at Longwood September 5 to October 21. Study key verses and gain insights that you can use in everyday situations, and help others as well.

For more details, e-mail Gary Wright (.(JavaScript must be enabled to view this email address)).